Anonymous asked: I'm a lesbian virgin who has not had a penis, real or fake, anywhere near me ever. I would like to be able to someday use a strap-on with a girlfriend or masturbate with a dildo but the aspect of putting anything in there freaks me out a little, since I've never done anything. I would like to coax myself into it but haven't gotten farther than one finger. Any advice?
well first make sure you’re aroused! make yourself wet with a few orgasms via clitoral stimulation.
do your usual one finger, try working up to two (but don’t push past your limit!)
get as comfortable with it as possible. this may take time.
continue to work your way up with either more fingers or slim toys that can be inserted (a simple dildo will do).
again, take your time.
when the time comes, you and your future girlfriend can work this situation out together (she may want to help you in your journey to penetration!)
in the mean time, touch yourself and start getting your vagina used to penetration and insertion via fingers and toys.
most of all: relax, relax, and relax.
alllll the luck to you! if any others have suggestions, please send them!
